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I've been a vegetarian since November of 1969, and a vegan since April 15, 2010. My wife likes meat, though she is now eating as a vegan several days each week. Finding good restaurants that meet both of our specifications is sometimes hard.
I never tell anyone at a restaurant that I write about our restaurant experiences until after the meal. Here is what we have experienced.
Penelope's Mediterranean Cuisine
We took a couple of days off our routine and ended up in Florence again. What a beautiful coastal city. We spent some time at the beach, and walked around Old Town.
We found the Bridgewater, located in an old mercantile store built in 1901. My wife had seen it on the internet, and it had some vegan options.
Well, it turns out that at leas one of the the owners is vegan. According to the business card that our waitress, Kelsey, gave us, the owners are Leo and Christine Duwell.
I ordered the Ginger Beer to start. It is non-alcoholic. I loved it. My wife, who does not like ginger, tasted it and ordered one for herself!
I ordered the vegan pizza. It was huge, and covered with more vegetables than I've ever seen on a pizza. It was the best pizza I've ever eaten!
My wife the Ocean Food Soup. She said it was good.
Their website is bridgwaterfishhouse.com. They are closed on Tuesdays.
Sometimes you just have to get away for a few hours. It's the middle of tax season for my accountant wife, and we decided to try to find a new restaurant that we'd never been to. We drove to Florence late last night and found this wonderful place down by the water in old town.
Our waiter was Romado, a Portuguese man with a soothing voice. Service was fast and friendly. The view of the water and bridge was beautiful. We had good food and a good time.
My wife had a chicken special and clam chowder which she described as "better than Mo's." There weren't too many vegetarian dishes, but the spring rolls, foccacio bread and salad were all good.
Though they offered dessert, we opted to see if BJs was open late. It was and we both tried new flavors.
Florence
offered a nice getaway for a few hours, and we were pleased to find
a nice restaurant open late.
We were in the north part of Eugene and were looking for a quick bite late one evening, and found this place in the Santa Clara shopping center.
The food was good and the service friendly. Not much to say about this place, but we'll go back when we're in the area again.
This is a nice Indian restaurant on Hilyard. There are a lot of vegetarian entrees, appetizers and even soup.
Our server was Sunny, a pretty young woman with a sunny personality. She brought a decanter of water to the table, and the bus boy refilled when empty.
The food was tasty, the portions plentiful and the service excellent.
Well, the water was good.
I didn't start writing this column to become a restaurant critic. I don't like reporting bad restaurants, but when I find one, I feel it is my duty to report what happened.
We wanted a quick meal, and decided on Mexican. We like good Mexican food. So we tried the Mission Mexican Cuisine on East Broadway.
Our waitress was Maria, who seemed overworked. She brought us chips and salsa. The salsa was quite ordinary, and the chips tasted stale, perhaps like they had been heated in a microwave.
We were patient, and ordered our meals. My wife had a cup of soup and chicken salad. I had a veggie burrito with Mexican potatoes. The burrito was tasteless. It was the most bland burrito I've ever had, and I left most of it on my plate. Even Taco Bell makes better burritos. The Mexican potatoes were good, but could have been better. All the food was heavy and filling, but not tasty.
My wife's soup was OK, though she only ate half of it. Her salad was not good, and she left most of it on her plate.
When Maria brought the bill, she charged us for a bowl of soup at $4.95, rather than the cup at $3.50. My wife pointed out the difference, and Maria, trying to prove her point, returned with the menu. My wife again pointed out the difference. Maria finally agreed and went to change the bill. When she returned, she had taken $1.00 off the bill, instead of $1.45. Perhaps Maria was just overworked that day. I don't know why she was so careless. We didn't point out her mistake; we just left a tip, paid the bill, and left.
We won't be returning to the Mission Mexican Cuisine.
Penelope's Mediterranean Cuisine
We saw this place advertised in a restaurant coupon book. They feature Penelope's Stuffed Portobello Delight. It sounded wonderful, so we made a special effort to go there on a Friday evening at 8.
We were served bread with an herbal olive oil. The bread was fresh and excellent, and the herbs in the olive oil were just right.
When I ordered the featured dish, I was informed that they had run out of portobello mushrooms. The waitress, Cybil, said that it was one of their most popular dishes. I don't understand how a restaurant can advertise a popular dish, then run out at 8 p.m. on Friday. Isn't this one of their busiest nights? Shouldn't they be prepared?
I ordered a stuffed eggplant, instead, and it was good, though I kept thinking throughout the meal about the missing portobello. My wife ordered a bowl of butternut squash soup. It was perhaps the best bowl of soup I've ever tasted. The soup made our day.
This restaurant has about a dozen tables inside, and a few more outside. When we arrived, there were patrons at perhaps five tables. Yet it took us 45 minutes to get our entrees.
The waitress suggested that when we come again that we let them know a day in advance so they have enough portobellos. I think that is ridiculous. It is the duty of the chef to be prepared. As I stated above, it wasn't as if the restaurant was full. It was a slow night, and they ran out of their featured entree.
So a mixed review on this one. Slow service, poor preparation, but excellent soup and bread.
BJs makes their own 14.2% butterfat ice cream, and this place is worth going to. We've been to the location in Old Town Florence down by the river, but prefer the original location on Highway 101.
Hmmm, favorite flavors? I haven't tried them all yet, but the Bing Cherry, Oregon Trail and Licorice are near the top.
My wife picked up one of those restaurant coupon books at a tax seminar in Coos Bay yesterday, so we decided to try a new restaurant on the way home.
The book listed a half dozen restaurants in Florence along with descriptions of their menu.
Nature's Corner, on the ocean side of U.S. 101 just north of the bridge, is in an odd-shaped corner of a motel. It is not just a restaurant; it is also a natural food store.
For a small restaurant, Nature's Corner has a big menu. We both easily found entrees, and the coupon paid for one of them.
Along with vegetarian and vegan entrees, they also have organic meats. We were both satisfied with our meals, and feel that we now have a good restaurant we are both happy with in Florence.
Our considerate waitress was Cindy, but the whole staff was friendly.
Hands down, the best sushi in Eugene is at Sushi Domo. Located on the west side of Delta Oaks Shopping Center, it has at least 20 vegetarian rolls.
Most people think that sushi is raw fish, and you can get raw fish sushi here, but sushi is simply a rice roll, sometimes wrapped in nori (a seaweed), with whatever ingredients you order.
I had inari, arbor maki and magic maki. Their menu includes a glossary(!) and a list of ingredients.
We sat at the sushi bar, really the only way to eat sushi, and watched the chefs prepare each order.
We highly recommend Sushi Domo.
I hadn't been to this restaurant on Chambers near 18th in nearly a decade. The last time I was there, they didn't have much for vegetarians, and since I vote with my wallet, I stayed away.
A group of us who used to work at the old HMT factory gathered there for a late lunch. I mentioned to the waitress, Annie, that I was a vegetarian, and she made sure that I had plenty of good food. She even wrote "No Meat" on my bill, and circled it.
I especially liked the Vegetarian Pot Stickers and the Veggie Spring Rolls. Needless to say, I'll be returning to Ocean Sky, and I'll be requesting Annie.
Vegetarians and vegans beware! Ring of Fire uses fish oil as a base in most of their dishes without listing it on their menu.
We went there, located on W. 11th and Chambers in Eugene, to celebrate the 25th anniversary of the day we met, July 5, 1981.
I had ordered a soup with a coconut milk base. The menu lists ingredients. Most of their menu items offer a choice of tofu, chicken or beef. My soup listed all vegetarian ingredients.
The soup had an odd taste. I questioned the waiter, and he listed some of the spices, then mentioned the fish oil base. I was horrified!
How dare any restaurant do that? What about people who are allergic to fish? There was no indication anywhere on the menu that most of the dishes contain this fish oil. The waiter said that it was like a secret ingredient in most of the dishes, and that he had had previous complaints, but that Ring of Fire had not changed its menu to indicate the fish oil ingredient. I wonder if Ring of Fire's insurance company knows that they don't list ingredients?
I vote with my dollars, and Ring of Fire will not get my dollars again until they change their menu to notify vegans and vegetarians about their secret ingredient.
This small, friendly, family owned and operated restaurant at the corner of Pearl and 13th in Eugene has been a staple of ours for many years.
I order the garden burger and a salad with dressing on the side. My wife usually orders the chicken strips. And we often get ice cream. They serve Umpqua Ice Cream, which is one of the best tasting brands in Oregon.
On your birthday, ask for your free birthday sundae!
If you're in a hurry, remember this place, because the service is always fast and friendly.
Highly recommended!
[Unfortunately, Pearl Street is no longer in business.]
We first discovered this vegetarian Chinese restaurant about five years ago.
The Lotus Garden Vegetarian Restaurant is religion-based, so there is no doubt as to the food quality and pureness.
We have never been disappointed with the food or the service. Food is a little cheaper (and portions smaller) at lunchtime. During busy evenings, there is sometimes a wait for entrees, but it's always worth the wait.
Our favorites are the Sweet & Sour Nuggets and the Lotus Delite.
Highly recommended!
Part 1
We've been to a few Olive Gardens through the years, and had gone to the one in Eugene near Valley River Center every couple of years.
We went recently, and had a waiter named Chris. I always ask for a pitcher of water (see my article on water) brought to my table. He refused! He said that he would be around frequently to fill our water glasses.
He wasn't. The entrees were delivered by another waiter, and I had no water to drink with my food. We got water once from another waiter, but spent most of the meal without water.
One of my chair massage clients at Saturday Market mentioned that she was a waitress at the Olive Garden, and promised me that if we returned there that she would make our visit special. So that night we tried the Olive Garden again, and requested Betsy as our waitress.
There was a long wait, as it was prom night, but Betsy delivered as promised. She left a pitcher of water on the table, but returned often and filled our glasses many times. Both the food and the service were outstanding!
The manager, A.J., came to our table and apologized for the previous poor service. He offered to pay for one of our entrees! When we saw the bill, we saw that he paid for the more expensive of the two entrees.
Thanks to Betsy and
A.J., we will be returning to the Olive Garden.
Part 2
We have gone back to the Olive Garden in Eugene several times. Last night Stephanie was our waitress. We received excellent service and the food was great. After the meal, I told her about our previous experiences there and that I write about our restaurant experiences in my blog. She asked if we were the ones whose story was posted on their bulletin board for several months. Not only did I write here, I also went to the Olive Garden website & made a customer comment about our bad and good service. Apparently both Betsy & A.J. got commendations as a result of my comments.
Part 3
Twenty-five years ago today, on December 4, 1981, aboard the Oceania, a floating restaurant in Honolulu harbor, I asked Loretta Dang to marry me. Now married 23+ years, we celebrated with a lunch at the Olive Garden Restaurant in Eugene. I've written here before about the bad and good experiences at this restaurant. Manager A.J. always greets us now when we are in the restaurant. Our favorite waitress, Betsy, has moved on. By chance, we found Stephanie, a 21-year-old cutie who has served us on several occasions. We requested Stephanie today, and received excellent service once again. She told us that if she wasn't there, that we could request her sister Amber or another server, Brittain, and that both of them are good servers. At the end of the meal, Stephanie told us that because we were regular customers celebrating a special occasion, the meal was on her! We were stunned. This has never happened to us before. We just wanted you to know that the Olive Garden has a special family of employees, and we are delighted to be their customers.
Another of my chair massage clients at Saturday Market is a waitress at Chapalas, a Mexican restaurant at Oakway Center in Eugene. When I found out that she was a waitress, I told her about my water experiences at the Olive Garden, and she invited me to come to her restaurant.
Candy greeted my wife and I at the restaurant with a hug. In all my years of going to restaurants, that's the first time a waitress has hugged me. I liked that and think it should be a tradition! lol
Without asking, she brought a pitcher of water to the table. The food and service were excellent. Thanks, Candy.
We went to Yachats, on the Oregon coast, for the 4th of July. One of my massage clients has a home there, and offered it to me for a few days vacation from Eugene.
Monday night we went to The Landmark, which according to their menu has been there since 1911.
The food and service were excellent, and the view looking out over the bay was spectacular. There was even a whale breaching a couple of hundred yards off shore!
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In life we meet up with all kinds of people. In your life you've probably met people you should have trusted, but didn't for some reason. And you've probably trusted people against your better judgment.
This week a con artist entered the life of someone I care about. He called himself Abi Geburah, though he also uses other aliases, including Sean Patrick, Sean Barrett, and Turk Patrick. He had an interesting accent: part Australian, part Irish. He said he was half Turkish, half Irish. He was all bull. He claimed to be a businessman, 31, friendly, all talk. And he left town with my friend's car, phone and credit card. The police are involved, of course, but the car is gone and so is my friend's trust.
If you do an internet search for Abi Geburah, you'll find this photo and an article about his $1.5m investment in an internet company. This is more bull. He's a liar and a thief.
Abi, I gave you my business card. If you truly want to learn about life and reach your true potential, not that of a criminal, call me.
Everyone else, look for this man. See the distinctive tattoo on his hand. It's not a spiritual tattoo. It's the mark of a con man. On December 10, 2012, he was spotted in Seattle. If you spot him, contact the police. Thanks.
Note: On June 15, 2015, I received a cease-and-desist order to remove the photo that appeared above. I removed the photo. The text is all mine, and copyrighted by me.
"Love all. Trust a few. Do wrong to none."William Shakespeare
Wednesday, December 19, 2012
Discrimination is the power of making fine distinctions. It is the art of decision-making.
You are constantly faced with making choices. It is time to start making choices that will lead to your enlightenment. Which choices help you? Which choices hurt you?
Gurumayi Chidvilisananda once talked about how to make decisions. She said to look for the love. If you're trying to decide between chocolate and strawberry, there's no difference in love, so it doesn't really matter. But if you're trying to decide to break up with someone, or trying to decide on one job over another, or thinking whether to watch TV or read a book, there may be a love factor. Always make the most loving choice.
Be picky. Set your standards high. Don't settle for less when you can have more. These are messages that will help you to live a better life.
Be really careful about what you allow into your mind. To make this life filled with self-love, self-acceptance, and success, decide right now that you'll do everything in your power to fill your mind with good information.
No more reading emails that might have something in it somebody tells you that you need to see. No more watching violent news that leaves you feeling helpless or afraid. Forget about the celebrity news that makes you feel like everyone else is living a great life. No more gossiping or listening to gossip.
Stop listening to the latest drama story at work or school. Stop listening to the friend who's been complaining about the same thing for years. It's exhausting and it's bringing you down.
It's time to be careful - really, really careful.
Resolve to do things that fill your mind with exciting new ideas, inspirational messages that motivate you to act, or wisdom that touches your soul in the best of all ways.
Connect - Take a workshop, attend a lecture, or enroll in a course that will stretch you, inspire you, and connect you with like-minded people whose good vibes will rub off on you. You become like the people you hang around with.
Listen - Buy or rent audiobooks that fill your mind with good information, that give you a chance to think, get motivated, and change your life for the better.
Read - Take a good book to lunch rather than a friend who's made "woe is me" his or her personal motto. Keep an inspirational book by your bed. Use daily routines like washing dishes or brushing your teeth as opportunities for "feel-good" breaks.
Watch - Tune out the latest reality show and tune into public television or radio.
Your good life starts with good thoughts. Start thinking good thoughts.
Discriminate in what you allow into your mind.
Success isn't a result of spontaneous combustion. You must set yourself on fire.Arnold Glasow
Saturday, January
29, 2011
It seems like people are always asking me questions like I know everything. I don't know quite everything yet, but I do know how to get answers quickly. I work mostly at home, and do a lot of research in my home office. My computer is usually on, and I have a toolbar with a Google search box that sits on my computer screen no matter what program I'm using. So if someone asks a question that I don't know, I can usually Google the query and get an answer in seconds. Sometimes when I'm busy, I ask the caller to Google it themselves. While most people nowadays know how to use a computer, and most know how to get to Google, most people don't know how to use Google to get full use out of it.
First, either use a toolbar like I do, or point your browser to www.google.com. Type up to ten words you want to search for and hit Enter.
Here are some helpful
hints to get the most from your Google experience.
Extra Google
tricks:
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"The answer is never the answer. What's really interesting is the mystery. If you seek the mystery instead of the answer, you'll always be seeking. I've never seen anybody really find the answer - they think they have, so they stop thinking. The need for mystery is greater than the need for an answer."Ken Kesey
Monday, April 2, 2007 (updated website links May 1, 2013)
Olga Carlisle, a feature writer for my hometown newspaper, the Freeport Journal-Standard, in Freeport, Illinois, wrote an article about this website. I contacted her in December, directing her to some of the features on this website, thinking that it might be interesting to some of her readers. The article generated phone calls and emails from old friends, acquaintances, and a number of people I've never met, but for whom something on this site touched an old memory.
I've been contemplating over this last weekend why I've gone so public with my life. In 1993 I had a revelation that I was to "follow the healing path" and that eventually I would teach. I've spent much of the time since then healing myself and reaching out to others.
I left Freeport in the 70s, and returned just a few times to visit relatives or attend funerals. Most people either didn't know where I went when I left or heard that I was living somewhere in Hawaii. Now, suddenly, I've popped up with a lot of publicity.
Gee, I could really feed my ego with all the praise I've gotten for putting so much interesting info on this site, but I want you to understand that that is not the reason that I've gone public with my personal life and with all the info. I did this so that I can say to you, "Wake up!" Life isn't about struggle, nor is it about our work and accomplishments, nor is it about all the things that consume most of our daily lives. Life is about taking care of each other, about building a personal relationship with God, and about healing ourselves.
I'm not going to preach to you. Choose your own religion, your own path, and live your own life. You have this wonderful machine that you reside in, your body; and you have this wonderful planet to live on; and you have been given gifts and tools to use while you're here. Appreciate them, use them, honor those who aid you, forgive those who offend you, and be thankful for all that has come to you. Work hard to improve yourself and to help others.
And enjoy the rest of this website.
"Every act of conscious learning requires the willingness to suffer an injury to one's self-esteem. That is why young children, before they are aware of their own self-importance, learn so easily." Thomas Szasz
Monday, January 22, 2007
A friend recently sent me one of those essays that have been floating around the internet for years, an analogy about our taxes. The various economists and professors this essay has been attributed to have all denied writing it. Here is what the friend sent, and what follows is my reply.
Taxes
! When explained like this, it is much easier to understand.
Taxing
the People
Sometimes politicians, journalists and the liberal left exclaim; "It's
just a tax cut for the rich!" and it is just accepted to be fact.
But what does that really mean? Just in case you are not completely clear
on this issue, I hope the following will help. Please read it carefully.
Let's
put tax cuts in terms everyone can understand. Suppose that every day,
ten men go out for dinner and the bill for all ten comes to $100. If they
paid their bill the way we pay our taxes, it would go something like this:
* The first four men (the poorest) would pay nothing.
* The fifth would pay $1
* The sixth would pay $3
* The seventh would pay $7
* The eighth would pay $12
* The ninth would pay $18
* The tenth man (the richest) would pay $59
So, that's what they decided to do. The ten men ate dinner in the restaurant every day and seemed quite happy with the arrangement, until one day, the owner threw them a curve. "Since you are all such good customers," he said, "I'm going to reduce the cost of your daily meal by $20." Dinner for the ten now cost just $80.
The group still wanted to pay their bill the way we pay our taxes so the first four men were unaffected. They would still eat for free. But what about the other six men - the paying customers? How could they divide the $20 windfall so that everyone would get his "fair share?"
They realized that $20 divided by six is $3.33. But if they subtracted that from everybody's share, then the fifth man and the sixth man would each end up being paid to eat their meal.
So,
the restaurant owner suggested:
* The fifth man, like the first four, now paid nothing (100% savings)
* The sixth now paid $2 instead of $3 (33% savings)
* The seventh now paid $5 instead of $7 (28% savings)
* The eighth now paid $9 instead of $12 (25% savings)
* The ninth now paid $14 instead of $18 (22% savings)
* The tenth now paid $49 instead of $59 (16% savings, the least proportionate
savings)
Each of the six was better off than before. And the first four continued to eat for free. But once outside the restaurant, the men began to compare their savings:
"I only got a dollar out of the $20," declared the sixth man. He pointed to the tenth man, "but he got $10!"
"Yeah, that's right," exclaimed the fifth man. "I only saved a dollar, too. It's unfair that he got ten times more than me!"
"That's true!!" shouted the seventh man. "Why should he get $10 back when I got only two? The wealthy get all the breaks!"
"Wait a minute," yelled the first four men in unison. "We didn't get anything at all. The system exploits the poor!"
The first nine men surrounded the tenth and beat him up. The next night the tenth man didn't show up for dinner, so the nine sat down and ate without him. But when it came time to pay the bill, they discovered something important. They didn't have enough money between all of them for even half of the bill!
And that, boys and girls, journalists and college professors, is how our tax system works. The people who pay the highest taxes get the most benefit from a tax reduction. Tax them too much, attack them for being wealthy, and they just may not show up anymore. In fact, they might start eating overseas where the atmosphere is somewhat friendlier.
David
R. Kamerschen, Ph.D.
Professor of Economics
University of Georgia
Look closely at the demeaning language used: "boys and girls, journalists and college professors". This is typical language from writers who are trying to make a point with a meaningless analogy. The right talks about the liberal media and liberal colleges, while the media is dominated by conservative owners and conservative commentators, and most colleges have a good mixture of liberals, conservatives and libertarians.
Here is my reply to my friend:
I
have to respond to this one. It's just too juicy. This is one of those
things that has been roaming the internet for at least five years, and
the person it's attributed to at the bottom denies he wrote it.
This is an example of bad logic. The story, while interesting, really
has nothing to do with our tax system.
In 2000, before Bush's big tax cuts for the rich, IRS data shows that
the richest 400 taxpayers paid 27% of their income in federal, state,
and local taxes. On average, these 400 taxpayers each had taxable income
of $151 million. All other taxpayers had average taxable income of only
$34,600, and yet their tax burden was 40%.
Corporations get it even better. The largest corporations pay little or
no taxes. Wal-Mart, with thousands of employees here in Oregon, paid a
measly $600 in Oregon income tax. Little old me, with considerably less
income, paid a lot more.
Concerned about paying the inheritance tax? You pay nothing if your inheritance
is worth less than a million smackeroos. Wealth is concentrated in the
hands of a small number of families. The wealthiest 1 percent of households
owns roughly 33.4% of the nation's net worth, the top 10% of households
owns over 71%, and the bottom 40% of households owns less than 1%.
And how about Social Security taxes? For 2007 the taxed rate is 6.2%.
So if you make $50,000 you will pay $3100. But there is a maximum income
that you pay on, and for 2007 it is $97,500. So if you make exactly $97,500
in 2007, you will be taxed $6045. Let's say you have a good year and make
twice that, or $195,000. You still pay only $6045, and now your tax rate
is only 3.1%. And let's say you hit it big in 2007 and make a million
bucks, you still only pay $6045, and your tax rate is down to 0.6045%.
Someone like Bill Gates or Oprah who makes a billion dollars in a year
still pays only $6045 for a rate of 0.0006045%.
By the way, if everyone paid the same 6.2% with no top limit, there would
be plenty of money in Social Security forever. In fact, the rate could
be dropped significantly if the rich paid their fair share.
Still like the analogy of the dinner?
"There's always somebody who is paid too much, and taxed too little - and it's always somebody else." Cullen Hightower
Friday, November 17, 2006
Recently I had the privilege of holding a workshop at the University of Oregon at a conference sponsored by the City of Eugene's Human Rights Council. The conference was titled Choice in Mental Health Care as a Human Right, A Vision of Recovery and Success. Was that ever an eye opening experience!
My workshop was on Emotional Freedom Techniques, and how I empower my clients to do their own healing. I spoke, explaining my work, what I do and don't do, then gave several powerful demonstrations on strangers who volunteered to receive my work. I am available to give talks and demonstrations to any group willing to listen. Just email me at , and we can set up a time and place.
At the conference I discovered that I was not the only person used and abused by the psychiatric system. Eugene-based organization MindFreedom International and the Mad Pride Road Show were represented. Just think about that: Mad Pride!
It got me to thinking, just what is mental health, and what is mental illness, and who gets to define it, and who gets to diagnose it. Therein lies the real problem. There are so many variables, so many shades of difference. What may be sanity in our culture is madness in another. A perfectly normal coping behavior, a result of assault or abuse, may be misdiagnosed as a serious mental illness. Misdiagnosis, over-diagnosis and under-diagnosis is common in the mental health field.
An example was given in one workshop where a young woman was first diagnosed as schizophrenic, with Dissociative Identity Disorder added later. Her next practitioner diagnosed her with Panic Disorder with Agoraphobia. One professional said she had average intelligence, the next said she was mentally retarded. The truth was that she had average to above average intelligence, and her coping behavior to severe sexual abuse and as a witness to a murder was misdiagnosed. As far as I can tell, most diagnoses are just guesses, and bad ones at that.
It is time we all begin studying our medical and psychiatric systems. The current movement is mostly made up of people who have been abused by the system. They call themselves "psychiatric survivors," though I prefer to think of myself as a "psychiatric conqueror." I not only was a victim as a child, I not only survived, but I have overcome the system and I am fighting back.
We must not let only so-called "professionals" who are the products of pharmaceutical-sponsored medical and psychology schools decide what is mental illness and who is sane. Currently, if one professional decides that you need to be institutionalized, they can go before a judge and argue that you should be hospitalized for your own good, and most likely your lawyer will agree (though your lawyer is supposed to argue your case before the law, in mental cases they usually side with the prosecution and agree that it is for your own good). You have more rights as a criminal, even as a terrorist, than you do as a suspected mental patient. And if you refuse the powerful mind-altering drugs they prescribe for you, they can keep you indefinitely.
"Insist on yourself; never imitate. Every great man is unique." Ralph Waldo Emerson
Wednesday, October 25, 2006
And another hypocrite bites the dust. Rep. Mark Foley, a Florida Republican congressman, has resigned his seat and entered rehab after it was publicly disclosed that he sent improper electronic messages to 16-year old male pages. As of this morning, five boys have come forward.
Foley was an outspoken critic of nudists, homosexuals, sexual predators and President Clinton. Foley immediately announced through his lawyer that he is not a pedophile, but of course, he doth protest too much, and we all assume that since he lied about the rest, that he probably is a pedophile.
And now it appears that the Republican leadership in congress knew about Foley's behavior for about a year. Foley's seat in the upcoming election was considered safe. He had a huge lead over his Democratic rival and was a shoo-in for reelection. The Republican leadership hid his predatorial actions toward teen boys to protect the Republican majority. Now the entire Republican leadership in congress is in trouble because they obviously put teen boys at risk to a sexual predator to protect their slim majority in congress. That's hypocrisy at its apex.
Foley's escape to an alcohol rehab center is another act of hypocrisy. While he may be an alcoholic, that does not excuse his behavior. Many celebrities assume that by checking themselves into rehab, they are excusing themselves from responsibility. Rehab centers teach responsibility.
Foley carefully crafted his public image, though it was widely known both in Florida and in Washington, D. C. that he was homosexual. Many gay organizations wanted him to run as a gay man. And let's make a clear distinction here. There is nothing wrong with being gay and hiding it. Many gays hide their orientation because of the outright discrimination against gays. It's not the hypocrisy of being a homosexual and criticizing homosexuals that is the problem here. It is Foley's sexual proposals to young boys that is troubling.
Foley voted for President Clinton's impeachment. During President Clinton's scandal with intern Monica Lewinsky, Foley sharply criticized him for his sexual misconduct with the adult female. "It's vile," Foley said in 1998. "It's more sad than anything else to see someone with such potential throw it all down the drain."
Foley's political career is also down the drain. While he survived rumors of being gay, there is no way anyone will ever elect him to anything after sending explicit emails to teen boys.
Foley was the co-chair of the House Missing & Exploited Children Caucus. He worked closely with America's Most Wanted host John Walsh to "protect" America's youth, while at the same time asking them in instant messages, "Do I make you a little horny?"
There's an important lesson here for all of us. Whenever someone protests loudly, look deeper. Many times those who protest the actions and behaviors of others have the same behavior hidden deep in their secrets. Most of those who strongly protest against homosexuals have had sexual feelings for those of the same sex, but have buried those feelings deeply. People who put others down should always be suspect.
"Everything that irritates us about others can lead us to an understanding of ourselves."Carl Jung
Tuesday, October 3, 2006
We just got home from seeing Pump Boys and Dinettes at the Actors Cabaret of Eugene. It was a fun, energetic musical. Mark Van Beever as LM and Amanda Fackrell as Rhetta Cupp were especially compelling.
This is the third local community theater play we've seen this year. The last two were Evita and 1776. We try to see several plays every year.
There is probably community theater near you. Support your local arts & go see a play!
"Simply put, music can heal people."Harry Reid, U.S. Senator
Friday, September 15, 2006
I recently returned home from my 40th high school reunion. High school wasn't the happiest of times for me, so I went there with a lot of apprehension. I had gone to my 10th reunion, and was quite disappointed. The same cliques that were present in high school still reigned at the 10th, and I left early, vowing to not go back until the "cliquiness" had disappeared.
So I was pleasantly surprised when I got to the 40th. Not only had the "cliquiness" disappeared, but everyone was genuinely friendly. I felt like I made a lot of new friends out of old acquaintances.
I'm not your average high school returnee. My business is healing. Not just others, but myself as well. So I used my return to heal myself and to offer my services to my classmates and their spouses.
I wasn't popular in high school. I didn't go to the proms. I didn't go out for sports. I didn't do much of anything, except that I may hold my high school record for most days skipped and still graduating with my class!
When I was asked to speak at the 40th reunion, I was somewhat surprised. I thought I would be one of several speakers, but the others made announcements, one recited a couple of original inspirations poems, one sang a couple of songs, and a couple danced. It turned out that I was the "keynote" speaker. And I think that what I said shocked my classmates.
My life is about growth and healing, and I spoke from my heart. I talked about my problems in school, from rheumatic fever and Tourette's Syndrome, to depression and suicide. I spoke about my journey from darkness into the light. And I offered my healing services to those present. About a dozen classmates and spouses took me up on it.
I've put my speech on this site.
Reunions can be traumatic, or they can be a time of healing. Use your time wisely. Live a conscious life. And have fun.
"Do not think
of knocking out another person's brains because he differs in opinion
from you. It would be as rational to knock yourself on the head because
you differ from yourself ten years ago."Horace Mann
Thursday, August 24, 2006
On last Sunday's Face the Nation, Bob Schieffer told the old story about the frog and the scorpion. The scorpion wanted to travel to the opposite side of the river, but the frog didn't want to take him because he didn't want to get stung. The scorpion promised the frog that he wouldn't sting him, so the frog agreed.
About halfway across the river, the scorpion stung the frog. As the injured frog began to sink into the river, drowning both of them, the frog asked the scorpion why he stung him. The scorpion replied, "Because it's the Middle East."
The joke usually ends with the line, "Because it's my nature," but Mr. Shieffer's ending is really true.
The Middle East shakes out like this: several tribes of people have been fighting for the same real estate since before recorded time. They all probably have some claim to the land, and there's probably no way to sort it out. These tribes have formed alliances with other tribes (and now nations) to aid them in their struggle.
Basically, the Jews (a combination of several tribes) now control the country known as Israel. The Palestinians, dominated by Muslims, control most of the surrounding territory for several hundred to several thousand miles in most directions.
Israel became an independent state in 1948. Most of the surrounding peoples and countries have a stated goal that Israel be destroyed. Israel just wants to exist peacefully. There have been several outright wars, and pretty much a continuous series of terrorist attacks, missile attacks and skirmishes.
Recently, Israel agreed to withdraw troops from the Gaza Strip, which they had held for a number of years. They tore down homes of Israeli settlers in the area, and forced their own people out. The Palestinians should have rejoiced and set about building a place for their people to live. Instead they moved in missiles and used the area to attack Israel.
The Israelis also removed troops from southern Lebanon, and in a multilateral treaty, were promised that the Lebanese army would control the area. Instead, Hamas, a terrorist group, moved their troops in, and bolstered with munitions from some nearby countries, also began firing missiles into Israel.
The latest battles were triggered by a kidnapping of some Israeli soldiers. The Israelis countered with a long-planned attack on terrorists in southern Lebanon and the Gaza Strip. Lebanon is once again at war, Israel is being hit and is hitting back hard, the Gaza Strip is a dangerous place to live, and it appears that we may be approaching another full-on war in the Middle East.
We hope that diplomacy can find a temporary solution to avoid slippage into World War Three.
As Rodney King said, "Why can't we all just get along?"
"To conquer
fear is the beginning of wisdom."Bertrand Russell
Friday, July 21, 2006
As most of you know, I work as a healer. I teach people to heal their own bodies, minds and spirits.
I give my clients anonymity and confidentiality, so I am going to tell the following story following my own guidelines.
A client came to me this past week suffering from multiple disorders. She originally came for a massage, but I quickly realized that whatever I did physically was only going to help temporarily, and I wanted to give her a longer-lasting healing.
She was in the Thurston High School cafeteria on May 21, 1998. She heard gunfire and thought it was a prank in conjunction with the student body elections. Then she heard screaming, and someone behind her told her to run. She froze. Students in front of her began diving to the floor. Kip Kinkel turned the gun in her direction, and fired. The student in front of her was struck, and fell.
Someone pushed her hard toward the door. She ran out, got a little ways, and turned back. The student who had been in front of her had also run out, but he staggered to the wall, leaned back against it, and slid to the ground. A big smear of blood remained on the wall. One part of her wanted to go back to comfort him, but someone else told her to run, so she ran.
Of course, she did the right thing. Inside the cafeteria, students were bleeding and dying. Those who escaped, lived. Some heroic students tackled Kip Kinkel and disarmed him. He had killed his parents the night before. At the school, he fired 50 rounds with a semiautomatic weapon, killing two and wounding 25. He was later sentenced to 111 years in prison with no chance of parole.
I helped my client work on issues of guilt, and the horror she witnessed that day, but that is not what I wanted to write about today.
In my healing practice, I work with people who have been hurt by other people. Kip didn't just wound 25 that day, he wounded hundreds, perhaps even thousands. My client, a peripheral witness to the shooting, was affected deeply, as was her family. All the students, teachers, support staff and all their families changed that day. The entire community was changed.
Almost daily I work with victims of rape, kidnapping, attempted murder and far too many abused children who have grown up and continue to suffer as adults.
I keep asking myself, "Why?" Why do spouses hurt each other? What drives men to abuse young girls? And older girls to abuse young boys? There appears to be no limit to the cruelty we inflict on each other.
We cause each other to suffer. Is this all part of God's plan? Every day, each of us makes choices. Just as we choose to abuse, we can choose to heal. We can choose to make healthy, loving, life-giving choices.
Each abuser, according to experts, has thought about it a lot before they have acted. They have planned it out, including the language they will use with their victims to try to keep them from telling. Be aware of your thought patterns.
Even though I don't expect you, dear reader, to be anything like Kip Kinkel or a rapist or a predator, you do make decisions every day that affect others, especially those who love you the most. Please make those decisions with utmost care. Be loving. Be generous. Be thoughtful.
"As the sun
makes ice melt, kindness causes misunderstanding, mistrust, and hostility
to evaporate." Albert Schweitzer
Sunday, June 25, 2006
When was the last time a service station checked your oil? In fact, when was the last time you went to a service station instead of a gas station?
This morning my wife was getting ready to drive to Salem to get some continuing education for her bookkeeping and tax business (aloha.htm) and for some reason I thought to check the engine oil before she left.
The Subaru was two quarts low! Good thing I checked! So then I checked the oil in the Geo Metro convertible, and it was a half quart low.
Just a couple of minutes and some dirty hands potentially saved me hundreds of dollars in repair costs.
Go and check your oil, or have someone do it for you.
"If at first
you don't succeed, keep sucking until you do succeed. Nyuk, nyuk, nyuk."
Curly of the Three Stooges
Friday, June 23, 2006
Yesterday,
being the owner of a station wagon and a flatbed trailer, I got to help
two different friends move furniture.
In the morning, after dropping off Kathy's dresser and ice cream, she
fed her horses, then we took a walk down a narrow trail to the stream
that borders her property on two sides. Little Fall Creek is an undammed
flow of snow melt from the western foothills of the Cascade Mountains
to the Willamette River, which drains most of Western Oregon. We discovered
that the spring floods had moved a downed cottonwood tree to the middle
of the creek, and created a small island habitat for trout, salmon and,
apparently, a beaver. A new sandy beach on Kathy's side appeared where
last year there were just rocks. Overhead, we heard a birdcall. An osprey
glided over us, and landed on a snag, a dead limb of a Douglas Fir. She
was calling and watching, and soon a baby osprey soared into view and
landed on another snag. We heard a swoosh, and a second baby flew over
us. The mother was carefully watching her young, while ignoring the two
humans, grounded 70 feet below her perch.
In the afternoon, as we were delivering the other Kathy's bed, a pair
of parent turkeys were guiding their flock across the narrow blacktop
road. We counted 23 babies, none more than six inches long. They safely
crossed the road and went to feed in the tall grass behind the house.
Later, after the furniture was unloaded, we saw the tail of a white-tailed
deer, flicking back and forth as it, too, fed in the tall grass.
Sometimes, living in a city, and dealing with the problems of humans,
I forget about the wonders of nature.
"Gratitude
is the intention to count-your-blessings every day, every minute, while
avoiding, whenever possible, the belief that you need or deserve different
circumstances." Timothy Miller, How To Want What You Have
Thursday, June 22, 2006
I saw a horror flick last night, the scariest movie I ever saw.
It was Al Gore's movie, "An Inconvenient Truth."
Whether you are a Democrat or Republican, conservative or liberal,environmentalist or nay-sayer, you owe it to yourself, you owe it to your country and your planet to see this flick. Before watching this, I was aware and slightly concerned about global warming. Now I'm scared. If his information is correct, and he has all the scientific data to back it up, then we are in great peril of melting the ice cap at the north pole, the glaciers and ice shelves at the south pole, and the great mass of thick ice over Greenland.
And if all that ice keeps melting at the rate it is now melting, within ten years we will see the ocean levels rise 10-20 feet. Just a 10 foot rise will peril the islands and atolls of the Pacific and completely change most of the coastline of the eastern seaboard of the USA. Say good-bye to Florida. What we saw happen in New Orleans last year is just a preview. Imagine that happening to Miami and a dozen other low-lying cities in the same year.
And bad as it will be in America, other countries will get it worse. Bangladesh, India and China combined have perhaps 100 million people living less than 20 feet above sea-level. Where will they go? We've never had that many refugees at one time anywhere in the world.
Think it won't affect you? What happens when we lose our ports, our offshore oil, food supplies are disrupted, power outages. The world as we know it will change rapidly. Are you ready? Or, as Al Gore suggests, are we ready to change now to avoid this? http://www.climatecrisis.net/
"Enthusiasm
is the greatest power. For one endowed with enthusiasm nothing in this
world is impossible." The Ramayana
Tuesday, June 20, 2006
For rational human
beings, there is never a good reason for terrorism. Or war, hatred, greed
or any of the myriad things that people do to each other.
In the minds of the terrorists, however, they are being patriotic and,
they wrongly believe, faithful to their religion. The revolutionary rebels
of 1776 are now considered patriots, but to the British at the time, they
were also considered terrorists, though I don't think that particular
word was used.
Muslims consider the soil of their countries to be holy, yet the United
States defiles their holy lands with military bases in Iraq, Turkey, Kuwait,
Afghanistan, Bahrain and Qatar, to name a few. We are in a period of time
where the U.S. has supreme military power, and we have not used that power
wisely. The Romans had bases in many countries, and it was good for Rome,
but not necessarily good for the occupied countries. The sun never set
on the British Empire, but the British also abused their power, most notably
in India.
I'm not an isolationist. I think that we are the best country on earth
and have the potential to do great things for the world, but because we
have misused our power and our goodwill, the oppressed are rising up against
us, and we label it terrorism.
I think that the only way we can defeat our enemy and the terrorism they
use to reach their goals, is to understand why they are doing what they
are doing.
They didn't grow up wanting to become suicide bombers. We humans are all
idealistic in our youth. We are all open to new ideas, and many of us
are swayed to radical beliefs. If we can remove the reasons they hate
us, we can win the war on terrorism.
Unfortunately, we appear to be involved in the middle east mainly to protect
our oil interests. We protect the world's supply of oil as police on the
high seas. Our bases in most of the above countries were put in places
to provide support for the protection of the movement of oil. So once
again, a world problem comes down to what each of us can do to reduce
our need for oil. I don't think that there is an easy solution, and perhaps
there is no solution as long as the middle east has oil and we need oil.
"Everything
that is impossible remains to be accomplished." Jules Verne
Friday, June 16, 2006
I had hoped that
our generation would be the ones to stop the corruption and have sensible
government. But I think it has gotten worse.
I don't think that it is hopeless, but we need strong leaders who understand
that health care is a right, not a privilege; that if we educate our young,
we can be leaders in the world; that those who use terrorism against us
do it for (in their minds) good reasons, that we have been "Ugly
Americans" with our foreign aid, with our military, and with our
corporations.
Hey, make me world dictator and I'll solve the world's problems. I'll
direct health care where it's needed, give equal education to all the
world, feed the hungry, and teach everyone to care for each other. Barring
me becoming world dictator, I think we're in for a few more centuries
of war, famine, pestilence and corruption.
Yes, I have ideas on how to extricate ourselves from corruption, but it
won't be easy.
Since none of us can change the world, we have to work on ourselves. Each
of us can be more loving, more giving, more caring. We can direct our
personal resources to those in need. We can work on our own anger, our
depression, our pain, our frustration, our self-loathing, our selfishness,
our pessimism, our greed. Our attitude can change us and those around
us. Our love can transform those whose lives are lacking in love. Each
of us is faced with choices every waking minute. Only we can change our
attitudes. Only we can make loving choices. Choose to love. Choose to
be positive. Choose to be an optimist. Perhaps the whole world won't change,
but we can change our personal world, and be a positive influence on those
around us.
"The note we end on is and must be the note of inexhaustible possibility and hope." Evelyn Underhill
Wednesday, June 14,
2006
Last fall my mother-in-law
was diagnosed with terminal cancer. I decided to become her primary caregiver.
I shut down my business, informing my clients what was happening.
We kept her in our home, through all the trials, multiple medicines, visits
from relatives, and all the other myriad things we had to do for her.
When she passed away in October, we were with her, holding her hand.
I considered it an honor to care for her. Even though, while going through
it, I questioned whether I had made the right decision, I persisted. I
set up a doorbell that she could ring whenever she needed help or wanted
to talk to someone. I always responded immediately. What could have been
a stress-filled situation, was instead a loving, caring end of life for
her.
I honor those who care for their family members. While it seems difficult
now, it is all worth it. I consider the time I spent caring for my mother-in-law
the most memorable, most powerful period of my life. I believe that on
judgment day, despite whatever else we do in our lives, we will be judged
by how we treat those closest to us, our parents, our children, our siblings,
and our spouses.
"There is a transcendent power in example. We reform others unconsciously when we walk uprightly." Anne Sophie Swetchine
Tuesday, June 13,
2006
My wife & I have
been to Las Vegas four times, and here is what we have learned.
Two days isn't long enough. Seven days is too long. Four days is just
about right.
At the airport, as soon as you arrive, pick up tourist brochures. Read
through them & find coupons. Lots of 2 for 1 coupons, show coupons,
restaurant coupons, gambling coupons, Grand Canyon coupons.
Rent a car. The buses are hot. Vegas is very, very hot. With a car you can go visit the dam, the lake, distant casinos, supermarkets, etc., in air-conditioned comfort.
The casinos haven't learned the lessons about smoking yet. If you must gamble, hold your breath. When you leave, all your clothes will smell like smoke.
Spend your money on shows. Cirque de Soleil has at least four shows ongoing at various casinos. Just pick one. They are all fabulous.
Dirk Arthur's magic show with big cats at the Tropicana is a great bargain. Look for 2 for 1 coupons. And look for his show about big cats on the Animal Planet channel, "Big Cat Magic".
Lance Burton's magic show at the Monte Carlo is also very good.
And Penn & Teller's magic/comedy act at the Rio is also good. Hmmm. Seems like we've been to a lot of magic shows.
Okay, there's lots and lots of free, nearly free or cheap things to do, also.
Take the elevator to the top of the ½ scale Eiffel Tower.
Ride a Gondola at the Venetian & have the gondolier sing to you in Italian.
Ride the roller coaster or another scary ride atop the Stratosphere, twice as high as the Space Needle in Seattle. No, really, there is a roller coaster on top of this very, very tall tower!
Walk through the hotels. There are so many themes. Each one is a wonder. Together, it is overwhelming and obnoxious, but individually, they are fun to walk through.
Find the world's largest chocolate fountain (over 2 tons of chocolate) at the Bellagio.
Walk through the Shark Reef at the Mandalay, and pet a shark (they are really rough).
Tour the dolphin habitat and the Secret Garden at the Mirage.
Watch the dancing fountain in front of the Bellagio.
Watch the Pirate show in front of Treasure Island.
Check out Fremont Street in downtown Las Vegas. At night there is a free overhead show.
Like to play Texas No-Limit Hold 'Em? Binyon's Casino, in downtown, has a no-smoking area where you can learn. Buy-ins are only $100.
There used to be really cheap food all over Las Vegas, but they learned that they can take your money in the casinos and at restaurants. But there is still one great buffet at the Californian, in downtown Las Vegas.
Study the architecture of New York, the MGM Grand, Caesar's Palace, the Luxor, and many, many others.
Go find things that most tourists never see. Try a sushi bar. See some showgirls. Take your picture next to the 'Welcome to Las Vegas' sign. Have fun.
And let me know what you find.
"Life is
not easy for any of us. But what of that? We must have perseverance and
above all confidence in ourselves. We must believe that we are gifted
for something, and that this thing, at whatever cost, must be attained."
Marie Curie
Saturday, June 3, 2006
2015 Tweets
July 31
I start my day with love. I live my day with love. I end my day with love.
This is why I am happy and peaceful.
July 30
I meditate daily to keep my mind clear and my emotions calm.
July 29
I'm happy because I choose to be happy.
July 28
All life is precious. All people, all animals, our planet. Our time is
short. Be kind whenever possible.
July 27
While others get angry or upset or sad, I am patient and allow the natural
processes to take place.
July 26
I live an ethical life.
July 24
I am not perfect. I do make mistakes. I learn. I grow. I am.
July 23
I am open, honest and vulnerable. These are my strengths. I grow and learn.
July 20
Giving freely to others brings me grace and peace.
July 19
I actively support live music and the arts.
July 17
I'm different, odd, strange, and unique. I'm ok. I like myself just the
way I am.
July 16
Even when people are argumentative or try to cause conflict, I remain
calm and peaceful.
July 15
I accept everyone and everything in my life, whether I perceive it as
good or bad, as one harmonious whole.
July 14
I am patient, for I know that everything and every person I need will
come to me, at just the right time.
July 13
I accept others as they are, rather than judging them by my flawed standards.
July 12
My life is a result of the choices I've made. Which road should I take
to reach my goals? http://t.co/swcY3d1U46
July 10
Life is a game. Play it well. http://t.co/IFviNGU6Kp
July 4
Visiting the great emancipator today. http://t.co/jsBY4cYDr5
July 1
I take good care of myself so that I can take better care of others.
June 30
I feel the love of everyone, even those not physically present.
June 28
I start every day with thoughts of love.
June 27
Love always wins.
June 26
I treat everyone equally, with love.
June 25
Forgiveness is not condoning. Forgiveness is liberation. I give up old,
limited thinking for new understanding. I forgive all.
June 24
I send love to people who are bigoted, cruel, rude and spiteful. Feelings
of hostility and resentment do not serve the planet or myself.
June 23
I am 100% responsible for my life. I refuse the victim role. I respond
to life positively and powerfully.
June 22
I communicate lovingly with everyone.
June 21
The more I help others, the more I prosper and grow.
June 20
I choose to be happy, every moment of every day.
June 19
Miracles happen to me every day!
June 18
Affirmations remind me that I am worthy, that I can set and reach goals,
and that I have few limits.
June 17
I believe in myself and my abilities.
June 16
An important component of success is knowing when to say no & when
to say yes. Know yourself. Be yourself. There will be more opportunities.
June 15
I have clear, written, realistic goals that I work toward every day.
June 14
The things I believe about myself are only thoughts, and I can change
my thoughts.
June 13
I love and respect myself, just as I love and respect others.
June 12
I listen to others, and respect their point of view, even when I disagree.
June 11
I live to serve.
June 10
I share my prosperity with others. The more I get, the more I give.
June 9
I am open to more love, more trust, more success, more prosperity, and
more healing. I do love, trust, succeed, prosper and heal.
June 8
I am willing to change and to grow. Every moment I accept myself as I
am. Every opportunity gives me a chance to learn and change and grow.
June 7
I forgive myself for the harm I've done to others, and I forgive others
for the harm they've done to me.
June 6
I strive to make every day the best day of my life.
June 5
Every day I do good things for myself, my community, and our planet.
June 4
I smile at everyone I come in contact with. I speak kind words to clerks,
wait staff, and all service personnel in my life.
June 3
I always do the best that I can, in every situation.
June 1
Love shapes my life. I change myself to be more loving, and to attract
more loving people into my life.
May 30
Because I am patient, everything I need will come to me in time.
May 29
I am creative. I find creative solutions to problems. Answers to long-standing
issues will be revealed to me. I am open to learn.
May 28
I give because I love to give, not because I expect something in return.
May 27
I am grateful for the elders in my life, for they have wisdom, patience
and love.
May 26
I am grateful for the young people in my life, for they have energy, enthusiasm,
spirit, and love.
May 25
I remember and honor those who came before me. They gave so much so that
I can simply live.
May 24
I never fail. I never quit. I either succeed, or I learn and do it other
ways until I succeed.
May 23
I pour out my love to all. Everything I need or want is within me.
May 22
I keep my thoughts positive. I think of only what I want to create in
my life.
May 21
I make time to exercise, and I take time to relax. I let go of worries
so that I am calm and serene. I actively work to be healthy.
May 20
I like, love, respect, accept and honor myself. I act in my own best interest,
while respecting others. I am my own best friend.
May 19
I attract to me people who are kind, exciting, caring, accepting, funny,
loving and generous.
May 18
I welcome everyone into my life and my home. We are all members of a loving
family.
May 17
I create peace in my mind and in my life. I trust my inner wisdom.
May 16
I forgive myself for things I thought I did wrong. I am free from my past.
I am creating a loving, successful, powerful life.
May 15
I center my thoughts on what I want to experience. I create my own life.
May 14
I follow my inner guide. My life is a shining example of love, light and
bliss.
May 13
I am not a body with a soul. I am spirit, temporarily residing in a body.
I am pure love.
May 12
I move past my limited human mind and align myself with the Divine Mind.
Everything is possible. Nothing is beyond my reach.
May 11
Positive affirmations help me to grow, be calm, accept, change, and to
remember who I am and why I'm here. I love myself and all of you!
May 3
Live your life to the fullest. Don't compare your life to others. Love,
laugh, share!
May 2
All the conditions and experiences which affect you are products of your
own patterns of thought. Change your thoughts, change your life.
May 1
Everything you perceive and experience originates in your mind.
April 30
It is amazing how different the world will appear to you when you change
your outlook toward it.
April 29
Change the way you look at the world, and the world will change. Think
positive thoughts. Be optimistic. Expect the best, and it will come.
April 28
Someone else's opinion of you really has nothing to do with you; it does
not affect you until you let it affect you.
April 27
Try to please everybody and you will fail. It cannot be done. Work to
please yourself. Do things that make you happy.
April 26
If you knew you would succeed at anything you try, what would you do?
Why not start now? Your true abilities will astound you!
April 25
Be at peace with your sexuality. Accept yourself for who you are.
April 24
Take time to appreciate nature. Sit outside in the sun. Take a walk in
the rain. Grow a beautiful garden.
April 23
Live your truth. Live your joy.
April 22
Save the earth by using fewer resources. Reduce, reuse, recycle. Eat more
plants, fewer processed foods. Eat, drink lower on the food chain.
April 21
We are all family, children of Mother Earth. Treat our planet and each
other with kindness.
April 20
Healing miracles happen every day. Be open to change your lifestyle as
needed to heal your body and emotions.
April 19
We are always connected. We are One. Be happy, for you are whole and complete.
April 18
Be especially nice today. Work to curb your temper. Be kind to everyone.
April 17
You live on a beautiful planet. Take care of it and appreciate the wonder
of nature. Feel the joy of living on earth.
April 16
As we age, many of us will be susceptible to Alzheimer's Disease. Here's
how to cut your risk in half: http://t.co/mU5yFgzsk7
April 15
Today marks exactly five years that I've been 100% vegan. I'm 67 years
old and have never been healthier.
April 14
As we age, we realize that our health is our most important asset. Eat
plants. Avoid sugar & processed foods. Exercise. Sleep. Breathe. Be.
April 13
Our bodies are getting older. Treat your body with loving kindness. Eat
mostly fruit and vegetables. Drink water. Sleep well. Be healthy!
April 12
Respect and protect your body. Work to stay healthy.
April 11
Make a goal that matters, that inspires you to change. Dig deeper. Really
work to become a better person.
April 10
Open your consciousness to receive abundance and fulfillment from all
sources.
April 8
Criticism is a learned response. Consciously rewrite your childhood experiences
with unconditional love and acceptance.
April 7
Allow yourself to flow with new experiences, new directions, and new changes.
Trust in the process.
April 6
Love and accept all. Everyone has something to teach us, but we must be
open to learning.
April 5
Do your best, always.
April 4
Don't play the victim role. Take responsibility for your life. Others'
opinions of you have nothing to do with who you are.
April 3
Communicate. Ask questions. Express yourself clearly. Don't make assumptions.
April 2
Use the power of your words for good, for truth, and for love.
April 1
Your words have power. Use them with integrity.
March 31
Maintain a positive attitude. Think thoughts that enable you to love and
approve of yourself, no matter what you did or what happens to you.
March 30
Your body is a magnificent machine. Be grateful for what it has done for
you, and take good care of it.
March 29
Religion & spirituality should never be serious. Laugh, love, feel
joy & bliss.. God is light, laughter, love, fun. Be spiritual and
light.
March 28
Work to create a world of wisdom, peace and harmony. Surround yourself
with love.
March 27
Send loving energy to those in need, areas of the world in conflict, and
to our home planet.
March 26
Let yourself go. Have fun. Don't worry about being judged. People will
judge anyway, so be yourself. Laugh every day. It's your life!
March 25
Allow yourself to learn from children. They are naturally full of life
and joy, and are eager to learn.
March 24
Speak only positive words. Be loving and constructive. Avoid gossip, criticism
and sarcasm.
March 23
Allow your mind to expand more each day. The love in your heart is limitless.
Express it daily. Expand your mind and your love.
March 22
Choose to be extraordinary.
March 21
When a friend is troubled, listen, give advice if asked, be there for
them.
March 20
You are a divine expression of life. You deserve the very best. Cherish
yourself, honor yourself, love yourself.
March 19
We were taught fears and limitations. Go beyond. Express your talents
and abilities.
March 18
When you replace your negative thoughts with positive thoughts, you gradually
become happier, calmer, and more loving.
March 17
Your brain is an awesome organ. Trust in your thinking power. Be innovative
and clear-thinking. Express yourself thoughtfully and lovingly.
March 16
Your power comes from the use of your mind. Think empowering and courageous
thoughts. You are in charge of what you think. Be positive!
March 14
When speaking with difficult people, remain calm and patient. Speak moderately
and lovingly. Don't allow their moods to affect you.
March 13
You get back what you give, in equal or greater measure. So give out as
much love as you can, and you will feel the love in return.
March 12
Create wonderful relationships. Communicate from your heart. Allow your
love to flow into all areas of your life.
March 11
You define your character through your thoughts, your words, and your
actions.
March 10
When you think well of yourself all the time, you become the embodiment
of good.
March 9
Whether at work or at play, take frequent breaks to nourish your body,
rest your eyes, stretch your muscles, calm your mind.
March 8
Fill your relationships with love, understanding and forgiveness.
March 7
Allow yourself to feel light and free. Put joy and laughter into all your
experiences.
March 6
Commit to never-ending improvement.
March 5
Communicate with gentleness, kindness and patience. Remove sarcasm and
negativity. Be positive toward all.
March 4
Ask for answers to your difficult questions to be answered as you sleep.
Ask for what you want in positive ways.
March 3
Our lives are incredibly complex, yet know that everything you need to
know will be revealed to you.
March 2
There is an inexhaustible supply of wisdom in the world that always makes
itself available to you when you need it.
March 1
Opportunities are endless. Do what you love and never give up.
February 28
Don't gamble on your success. Plan, prepare, and take action.
February 27
You will be as successful as you set your mind to be. Doubt yourself and
fail. Think positive and succeed.
February 26
Don't get stuck in the prison of limited thinking. Free yourself. See
the potential good in everything.
February 25
This is an extraordinary time to be alive. Work on being centered and
loving no matter what you encounter.
February 24
Work for inner peace through loving yourself, forgiving yourself and others,
and releasing resentment.
February 23
Release expectations of what you think you deserve and trust in the goodness
of others to fulfill you.
February 22
Life is filled with constant change. Accept change with grace, thankfulness
and love.
February 21
Your job is not just a place to earn money. It is an outlet for your creativity
and where you learn to solve problems.
February 20
You are a beautiful flower. Allow yourself to blossom.
February 19
You are capable, organized and efficient. You can accomplish anything
you want.
February 18
You are emotionally equipped to lead a balanced and harmonious life. Allow
the world to fulfill you.
February 17
You are potentially rich in money, time, energy, love, health and creativity.
Allow it all to flow to you unrestricted.
February 16
You are adequate to the tasks ahead. Learn what you have to learn, and
move forward with confidence.
February 15
Decide what you want; choose how you're going to get there, then do it
to the best of your ability.
February 14
Work to provide for yourself for current living expenses and for your
future. Don't depend on others. You have what it takes.
February 13
Mother earth provides abundance for all. Accept your share with gratitude.
February 12
Spend your money wisely. Enjoy what you buy. There is enough money in
the world for you to be wealthy. Accept your birthright.
February 13
Be open to receiving. Be grateful for what you have. Give freely. What
you need and want will come to you.
February 11
You have been provided with what you need and want. Pay your bills with
gratitude and love.
February 10
You are worthy. You deserve a good income. You deserve wealth. Don't struggle
to achieve it; allow it to come to you easily and naturally.
February 9
The source of your income is within you. Your salary or wages are only
a channel. The universe provides what you need and want.
February 8
Your consciousness is the key to the flow of money through your life.
Accept that money comes and goes with ease.
February 7
Give. Teach. Befriend. Then give some more.
February 6
Keep loving. Show love in every little way to everyone you meet today,
even people you don't like!
February 5
Tell people you love them. It makes them feel good, and it makes you feel
even better! The world needs more love. Let's all give love!
February 4
When you control your thoughts, you control your mind. When you control
your mind, you control your life.
February 3
Your formed thoughts have great power & influence. When you waste
your thoughts in negativity & worry, you negate your positive thoughts..
February 1
Have good understanding. Think well of yourself. Think only good thoughts.
January 31
When you change the way you think about yourself, and not in an egotistical
way, you will experience greatness.
January 30
As long as you are going to think, you might as well think great thoughts
about yourself and others.
January 29
Always have ideal, sublime thoughts about yourself. Always look well upon
others, as well. The power of your thoughts is truly great.
January 28
Consider yourself great. Live that way. In your mind, respect yourself
with great joy and great love.
January 27
You do not possess your mind. Your mind creates the sense of who you are.
January 26
Everything you analyze, define, describe, feel for or opine about is only
a play of your mind. You are not separate from your mind.
January 25
Your thoughts are the screenplay of the movie of your life.
January 24
How you thing about events, people and things has a profound effect and
determines how each will affect you.
January 23
Every thought you think contributes to the matrix of your life.
January 22
Don't underestimate the power of what you are thinking at any moment.
January 21
Understand the power of your mind. Your mind is not insignificant, ordinary
or small.
January 20
When you think bad thoughts, you experience agony. When you think good
thoughts, you have a happy life. Control your mind. Think positively!
January 19
Here are some of the reasons I don't eat eggs: http://t.co/OihMYKdFAT
January 18
The power of thought is very effective. Where your mind goes is where
energy goes. Your mind is creating your play of consciousness.
Robert Bike
January 17
You are one with all, and have the power and freedom to create your life.
January 16
Never think a thought about yourself that you don't want to come true.
January 15
Since your mind creates your world, you must think positive thoughts about
others, and especially about yourself.
January 14
Whatever your mind believes is real is experienced as reality. You live
in a world of your own thoughts and creations, your own world.
January 13
Every moment of your life is shaped by what you are thinking. Your mind
creates your life. You experience what you think.
January 12
People always ask me (and other vegans), where do you get your protein?
Here's one answer: http://t.co/Ysv5W9Ksvo
January 11
Be loving toward all.
January 10
Live joyfully, with an open heart.
January 9
Honor and respect all living beings.
January 8
Take these words to heart: May you live an interesting life!
January 7
Be grateful and giving. Give until you feel good.
January 6
Release the anger and pain from your childhood. Accept love and pleasure.
Move in the direction of your highest good.
January 5
Why I am a vegan. http://t.co/8LMJVHwKZT
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